It’s An Inkblot World:
The Relationship Project
—A Private Series With Mary—
“The first function of mythology is showing everything as a metaphor to transcendence.”
Every relationship in your life is, at its heart, a sacred mirror—reflecting back the places within you that are longing for Healing, Liberation, and the deepest remembrance of who you truly are.
Drawing from one of the most transformative components of the Spiritual Psychology Master’s Program at the University of Santa Monica, this intimate six-month journey invites three individuals into a profound, Soul-Centered exploration of a significant relationship in their lives. Through monthly group sessions taking place within the Spiritual context, curated trio processes, and private group mentoring with Mary, participants experience what it means to receive God’s Healing Grace—releasing the stories, judgments, and grievances that have obscured the truth of their Essential Loving Nature. The intention of this six-month offering is deep Healing, Revelation, and Liberation.
This is a very special opportunity for three individuals who have clear intention to work with Mary over time, receiving the Blessings of Spirit’s Wisdom, Guidance, and Healing Grace. This offering is a unique and sacred container.
Three participants commit to six four-hour monthly Zoom gatherings, facilitated by Mary, April through September. This offering includes:
Six two-hour curated, depthful Trio processes during which each participant serves as the Sharer, Facilitator, and Neutral Observer.
Six 90-minute small group sharing sessions with Mary.
A 90-minute individual mentoring session with Mary. To be scheduled during the first three months of the series.
This offering also includes:
The opportunity to develop a custom Rating Scale to track upward movement in consciousness and shifts in the relationship over time.
The opportunity to keep a Patterning Journal for the purpose of practicing Neutral Observation in consciousness
Applying a simple Relationship Remedy of their own choosing each month.
The opportunity to give and receive peer support.
Benefits
Cultivating Gratitude Receiving the benefit of Mary’s mentoring over time while also having the Blessing of a monthly curated trio process and peer support.
Truly embracing the Spiritual Psychology Principle: Everything is for you and engaging in the difficult but incredibly rewarding and liberating work of learning to use everything, even the most challenging of relationships, for growth, learning, healing, upliftment, and Liberation.
Healing your relationship with a significant other from the inside out.
Realizing all relationships are inside you and letting go of the greatest relationship myth: If only they would change, everything would be fine.
Accepting and Cooperating with relationship challenges as learning devices—opportunities for deepening in Self-Compassion and Self-Forgiveness in service to Healing and Liberation.
Experiencing the power of the Spiritual Psychology Principle: How you relate to the issue is the issue … and the opportunity. And perhaps even more potent, how you relate to yourself as you go through the issue is the Golden Opportunity.
Embracing the Spiritual opportunity for Courageously and Compassionately accepting responsibility for how you relate to the petty tyrant or stacker, inside and out. ”What are they mirroring to you regarding your relationship with yourself?”
Freedom from the reactive pattern of “I’m upset because… ”
Embracing and transforming—and even completing—a significant element of your Earth School curriculum.
Enjoying the Liberation and leverage available through Entering the Spiritual Context and experiencing yourself as the Presence of Love Itself.
Truly sacrificing grievances and grudges for the last time.
Releasing misperceptions of who you are and the purpose of your embodiment.
Experiencing nothing less than a shift in identification from the ego’s false narrative and restricted operating system to the Golden Glory of Remembering “I AM Divine”—a Soul learning to Love as God Loves—unconditionally, neutrally, and continuously.
Power Tools of the Relationship Project
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Gathering and together invoking the Light of the Holy Spirit to assist us, work with us, Guide us, Inspire us, and Bless us.
Forgiveness of judgments and the mother of all judgments:
I forgive myself for judging myself—and for forgetting who and what I AM.
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Compassionately accepting responsibility for the disturbance within your own consciousness and using the Power of God’s Loving and Compassionate Self-Forgiveness to wipe the slate clean.
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Identifying, Owning, and Accepting Projections.
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Considering the beautiful question: “What is my relationship with X mirroring to me about my relationship with myself . . . ?”
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And the Liberating question: “What have I taken my experiences with my mom, dad, or significant other to mean about me?”
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Recognizing you have the power to change your inner conversation about the relationship—you can choose to be in a conversation in which you’re relating a victim story about your relationship with X—or you can shift to the empowering and Liberating altitude of the Soul’s perspective.
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Opening and receiving Spirit’s Miracles of Healing Grace.
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Embracing the opportunities for unveiling the Majesty of your Soul that lie hidden behind the Veil of Forgetfulness and relationship challenges.
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Embracing the Awareness that I AM the Light and dispelling the illusion that I AM anything less than Love.
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Surrendering the misidentification with the separate self through Lovingly dissolving and resolving the barriers that you’ve built inside yourself to protect the wounds you’ve had no words for.
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Exploring what this relationship is reflecting to you metaphorically about your relationship with the Divine Feminine and/or the Sacred Masculine—Father-Mother God.
How This Offering Came To Be:
Last year, my dear friend, Carolyn Freyer-Jones, proprietress of the widely acclaimed CFJ Coaching Success School, asked me if I’d be interested in offering an intensive six-month version of the Relationship Project, one of the very powerful components of the Second Year curriculum in USM’s Master’s Program in Spiritual Psychology, to three of her coaching clients. I said, “Please tell me more.”
A depthful conversation revealed all three were experiencing significant challenges in their relationships with their mothers. I further learned that though none of them were USM grads, all had been introduced to Ron’s and my work, embracing the fundamentals of personal responsibility and Compassionate Self-Forgiveness.
I found this an intriguing opportunity, and with Carolyn’s encouragement, I formulated a six-month offering.
We recently completed our sixth Zoom Call. What a Joy and Privilege it was working with these three individuals. I had no idea how much fun it would be. Their Authenticity, Courageous Vulnerability, and commitment to sacrificing the ego’s false narratives in service to the revelation of the truth of their Beingness—a Divine Being having and using a human experience for the purpose of Awakening and living in the Remembrance of their Essential Loving Nature—was nothing less than inspiring. This experience is inspiring this current offering of the Relationship Project.
This is a very special opportunity for three individuals who have clear intention to work with Mary over time, receiving the Blessings of Spirit’s Wisdom, Guidance, and Healing Grace. This offering is a unique and sacred container.
This is an opportunity to work with Mary in a focused way for six months. To learn more, click here.
Small group of peers, other USM grads who have a foundation of the Principles and Practices of Spiritual Psychology.
The Relationship Project group is limited to three USM graduates of the two year program. This will be an intimate group, with deep work, sharing and participation occurring. Each participant will receive a high level of attention—as such an application is required.
It’s An Inkblot World:
The Relationship Project
—A Private Series With Mary—
Dates: April thru September, one Thursday per month.
Fee: $9,500
A Deposit of $1,000 is due with your application.
This fee is refundable as there may be more applicants than there are spaces.
Refund Policy and Cancellation Request Form can be found here.
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